I WANT TO LIVE
SO YOU DO TOO
I AM NOT DEAD
UNTIL I SAY SO
IT'S TRUE
THE SAME WAY
1+1=2
ONE FOR YOU.
ONE FOR TWO.

President & CEO

AHCA/NCAL The American Health Care Association

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Een Koninklijk Appel:
Breng Onze Dochter Thuis

A Royal Appeal:
Bring Our Daughter Home

Your Majesty,

With the utmost reverence and a heart weighed by a profound and humble urgency, I write to you today. I speak not of policy, but of a person. Not of citizenship, but of a daughter.

There is a child of the Netherlands, a daughter of the Hongerwinter, whose first breath was drawn in the cold cellar of your nation’s courage. Her bones were forged from the very grit of the dykes that hold back the sea; her spirit, from the resilience that refused to be swallowed. She is, in the most unassailable sense, a creation of this land.

Her name is Antoinette.

Today, that same breath is fading in a distant, silent room. The resilience that defined her people is being systematically dismantled, far from the familiar scent of tulip fields and the sound of her native tongue. She has been erased in every ledger, deemed a ‘nobody’ by the cold mechanics of bureaucracy, her life labelled a “heavy price” to be endured.

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WHO IS ANTOINETTE?

Antoinette is an 81-year-old woman with a spirit that refused to be broken. She is a mother, a woman who knew her own mind, and above all, she was a fighter who repeatedly expressed her fierce desire to live. Her life holds sacred value. Her wishes hold weight. She is not a "shell" as her daughter and son-in-law claim. She is a human being, and her will to live was the one thing her caretakers could not tolerate and had to break.

The Calculated Demise: Sedated into Submission, Starved into Silence.

The "What"

Legal Evation Strategy

Chemcical Constraints
and Medical Abuse

Admission of Intent
The Motive Revealed

I limit My Curiosity
Strategy of Ignorance

TIMELINE OF CALCULATED ERASURE

The Willful Blindness Directive

To make the erasure legal, they blinded the system. They manufactured a false narrative of "combativeness," creating a paper trail that pathologized Antoinette's will to live as a psychiatric symptom. This was the second act of erasure: the destruction of her voice in the medical record.

"We Don't Want That.

"Kimberly Veronese, Antoinette's daughter and legal proxy, repeatedly used this phrase to deny her mother life-affirming care, directly opposing medical advice and hospice principles of comfort and choice. This was the first act of erasure: the dismissal of her will.

Chemical Imprisonment

With the pretext in place, they enacted the final, physical erasure. They used chemical restraints to sedate her into submission, not for her comfort, but for their convenience. This intentional suppression of her consciousness led to the third and most visible act of erasure: the resultant, forced starvation and emaciation of her body.